In our life , we will face other people,but in the most of time,we think about ourselves,talk to ourselves. So, the most important things for us to have a harmonious environment to spend time with ourselves is self-acceptance and self-unstanding.
But why they are so important?First,if you can't accept everyting about yourself like your bodys,your abilities or something like that,Why others will accept you?Second, as you can't understand yourself,so if you must to make a choice,which is really important for you , what should you do?Or, if you make a choice you sure that you will never suspect about your choice?
So,I think,its really important for us to accpt ourselves and understand ourselves.
In the book,Sara always can not accepts herself,she doesn't like her feet as she thinks they are too huge she doesn't like her fingers as she thinks they are stubby she used to write a theme about looks being the most important thing in the word, she thinks her sister Wanda is pretty,she doesn't like he own looks.She also can't understands herself.She doesn't know why she likes her orange sneakers before a second but she doesn't like it anymore at the moment.She wants to brokes everythings in her life as she doesn't like them and she doesn't understand them!So ,she doesn't like her Aunt Willie,her sister.Charies is her little brother, who intelligence has some problem.But Sara love him,though sometimes she impatient with him.I think maybe she think everybody can't understand her,doesn't like her, but her brother depend on her.So,as the kinship,she can lookafter her brother and she love her brother .